According to the text “Breaking Up Nicely”, says that breaking up should be done in a language that makes the other person feel less rejected such as “you” rather than “I” or “we” and that it should be done at a location that has memories, onlookers, and your home. The article gives great advice to how you should present the news to your partner since it would help with breaking up as smooth as possible. Breaking up can be a hard thing to do and telling your partner should be done in a way that makes him feel less rejected so using the words you instead of I will make them feel more understanding like for example I just don’t feel ready will make your partner feel devastated and question you too much rather use the words haven’t you notices things aren’t the same anymore so that your partner will think and let things settle in his mind that being together is not such a good idea. Overall the advice given is great since it prevents the situation from escalating and leaves the other person not that devastated by feeling rejected.
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